Blogging in B Minor

I was out on a few internet boards this morning and found an interesting post that posed the question “what constitutes a brain tumor survivor?” The discussion centered around whether or not a “survivor” was dependent upon having met some type of milestone in recovery, whether that be measured in time since surgery, clean MRI scans, completion of chemo, a certain quality of life, etc. Without passing any judgement, because I really don’t - everyone is entitled to ask questions, but I was a little bit surprised to see that post. It could be just me, but I firmly believe (and I said so in my reply to this post) that a brain tumor survivor is a survivor from the day they are diagnosed. If that person wants to make the choice to view themselves as such is of course up to them, but the premise is simple to justify and completely appropriate in my humble opinion.

Put it this way. If you are living with something that threatens your life, you are surviving. If you are employing treatment modalities to fight (survive) for your life and, as we all are trying to do as suvivors, maintain the highest quality of life that we can, you are surviving. In many cases we are thriving and this is a blessing. Let’s put it another way. Suppose you are shipwrecked and you are the only one on the beach. You feel completely alone (as many of us do the day we are diagnosed). Are we dead on the beach? Let’s say that being shipwrecked is being told we have a tumor and sitting on the beach is our circumstances. We could choose to view this whole situation as the end, just as we could our brain tumor diagnosis. Again, are we dead? No. We can go climb trees, find coconuts, food, shelter (i.e. treatments) and survive - right from day #1. My point is we ARE survivors, from the beginning. There is no magic milestone. There is no graduation ceremony at a year or six months that we attend where we get a diploma that says we now have a Masters Degree in Brain Tumor Survivorology. So you walk with a cane? Ok. So your vision is impaired? You have major neurological deficits. We are survivors. Period. It’s all in God’s hands anyway and as survivors, we can be examples for others. There may be people in your very family that will have the fight of their life 10 or 20 years from now and when they do, they will remember - yes, they will know how you are facing your adversity, with courage, strength and hope. And that may be the very thing - and could be the only thing, that pulls them through. Think about that.

We live with brain tumors and we live with zest - we try to live each day, for each day. The past doesn’t matter. It’s gone. The future doesn’t matter either. I had to plan out some things, and I’ve talked about that in posts. As a husband with children, I have everything lined up correctly so if something does happen to me things are handled. Other than that, we live in today and we are survivors and in many cases we thrive…

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